Is Clutter Affecting Your Love Life?

heart clutter2Clutter starts in the home but bleeds into every part of your life especially your love life.

If you are looking for love or just looking to reignite your love life ask yourself these questions?

-Is your home a place you would ask someone you are dating to come inside?

Walking through the door of you home is not only what you see everyday but what others will see. First impressions are important. If you have stacks of bills, old newspapers piled up and dust an inch thick that is not only going to affect how you live but it will affect who you attract.

-Are there clothes piled up on the floor? Unmade bed?

The bedroom in my opinion is one of the most important rooms in a house. It’s where you come home to at the end of the day for peace and relaxation.

If you want love and romance start with the bedroom. Remove anything that does not belong in a bedroom. (ex: kids toys, stacks of unpaid bills, old magazines)

Make the bed! Simple but seldom done.

CLEAR THE CLUTTER. Nothing puts the breaks on romance more than clutter. There is a reason couples love to go to hotels for romance. There is no clutter or distractions. Make your room look and feel like you are on vacation.

-Is your closet full of “what if” clothes?

Those are the clothes that you hope one day you will fit into again so you keep but never wear. These clothes not only take up space but are killing your self esteem which affects your love life.

-Is your kitchen sink full of unwashed dishes? Kitchen counters barely visible? Dining table has not been used in months because it is stacked full of items you intend to get to but haven’t yet? 

Kitchens are the first thing you see in the morning and when you walk through the door.

Clear the counter tops. Counters are for preparing food not unpaid bills and unopened mail.

Make it a goal to start eating your meals at the dining table. Eating meals together opens up communication which is always good for any relationship.

If you answered yes to any of these four questions and you truly want to find love or just put that spark back in your relationship start by clearing the clutter in your home.



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